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All of this waste is just one of the reasons why Ryan and I choose to celebrate our holidays with only handmade and vintage gifts. Everything that is purchased today comes with excessive packaging that we just can’t stomach (plus we hate the lines in malls and big-box stores!). When we make our own items, there is no plastic, cardboard, tape, etc. that is needed to hold them together while they sit on a shelf.

- We wrap a lot of our gifts with turned inside out brown paper bags that we get when we go grocery shopping and forget our canvas bags, or with old newspapers that we take home from work, or with junk mail offers that find their way to our address, so we can skip buying wrapping paper (saves time, money, trees, and space in the landfills).

- Instead of choosing plastic ribbon, you could make your own with fabric from old tee-shirts, with the extra yarn from your last knitting project, or you could go out and buy a spool of cloth ribbon that can be reused instead of being thrown away.

- Gift bags are usually reused and are thus a better choice than wrapping paper. But fabric gift packaging like this or this will last even longer and you can make that yourself in no time!

As for this little break I seem to be taking from blogging, I’ll be picking up my own slack as soon as the new year starts! First entry back, of course, will be my goals for 2011. I like to think more in terms of goals rather than resolutions! I find that the word “resolution” often makes me feel that I am making a choice to do something that I should already be doing — and therefore I feel a little bit guilty that I’m not already doing it — whereas a goal allows me to focus on the end product with excitement and without a certain sense of impending necessity. See you again soon!

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Thankfully, my family decided to do the secret Santa thing this year, so I only had one person to think of this Christmas other than Ryan and Leigh Grace (the kids will still get a gift from everyone in the family — the cut off is whether or not they’ve graduated high school). I drew my sister-in-law, Sarah, and Ryan drew my sister, Kristen. And for Ryan’s side of the family, we have his parents Lei and Renee and our fond Uncle Bob. Here’s what we’ve done for each of them this year (Click any of the photos to seem them larger):

Sarah - My brother and his family never really settle down. Both of them were raised in families that did a lot of traveling and relocating, so I think they’re both pretty comfortable when they can keep their surroundings fresh. So, I thought a portable growth chart would be something that might come in quite handy for them since they have one little darling and another on the way. As they track their children’s growth throughout the years, I can stitch it into the fabric for them, or they can simply mark it down with a sharpie. Either way, this will be a great way for them to still have the experience and memory of a “wall” that tracks their heights over the years, even if they move every so often. You could make your own like I did, or ask very nicely if you could buy it from the person who inspired me. It looks like she doesn’t have anything in her shop right now, but most Etsy artists will do custom orders if you’re pleasant and willing to pay.

Leigh Grace – My niece turned 2 in August and is already one of the coolest people I’ve met in my lifetime. She is in love with books, movement and changing outfits. I thought that, although I just love to run around with her when I babysit or at family gatherings, if I were one of her parents I would be relieved to find something that could inspire her creativity while also being able to keep her in one spot for longer than the length of a Dr. Seuss rhyme. So, I made her some play dough. There was a recent article that I was reading about developing the imagination, and I realized that so many of the games and toys that come out these days encourage a concrete beginning-to-end philosophy (video games, board games, everything is so structured!) rather than remaining open ended so the child can take the reigns. So the play dough was made in hopes that she would also enjoy herself as her imagination went wild! The recipe is easy (and would be great fun for kids!), check out my entry on the play dough process right here.

Photo and product by OneLifeJewelry on Etsy

Kristen - While my sister doesn’t have very much in common with Ryan or with myself, we did have a relatively easy time deciding upon something that we both thought she might like (I helped him out a little…). As a social worker, she has to dress up every day for work, and business casual can get boring very quickly if you’re not careful to continuously add new little accessories wherever you can. She’s a person who appreciates simple jewelry rather than going over the top or funky, so we settled upon this little silver necklace from OneLifeJewelry and are satisfied that it will get some wear.

Lei - For Ryan’s Mum, he has crafted a CD that is just to her liking. With a bit of Native American in her blood, and a lot of appreciation for music, he used his own handcrafted Native American flute to record a series of tracks that are soothing and warm. He wrote each song with her in mind and, seeing as he’s such an amazing musician, I just know she’ll absolutely adore the entire collection.

Renee - Renee loves to work with her hands. She spends a lot of time handcrafting her own things, actually, we have several pieces of furniture in our home that she has made herself, and so Ryan decided to return the favor by making a sign for her to hang in the garage where she works. Since we don’t have our own garage or workshop space to do woodcutting in, he purchased the wooden pieces and painted and assembled them himself. Had we more space and the appropriate materials, this project would have encouraged us both to branch out creatively and try to do something entirely new for the both of us. But, alas, we live in a tiny city apartment…maybe next year.

Uncle Bob – Since Uncle Bob has invited us to spend the holiday at his house this year (New Hampshire is a little far when I have to work on Christmas Eve and Ryan has to work on Christmas), we have considered many different gifts for him. Finally, after much deliberation, we have decided upon a couple of small gifts. First, Ryan made him a corn cob pipe with some remnants of our local summer. He’s absolutely brilliant, that kid. Second, Ryan made him a hallowed book box by cutting a square of pages from the inside of a book after gluing the outside pages together. It looks like a normal book on the outside…inside, it holds more treasures than just great words (or in some cases — terrible words). This Christmas morning it held the corn cob pipe that Atlas found so incredibly fascinating.

Ryan – My one and only. This year I got him:

- A vintage corduroy vest – It seems like neither of us has really invested in any new clothing in awhile, and Ryan always seems to be frustrated with his closet. In search of something a bit more grown up for this guy who has just turned 25, I sought a style that would allow him to advance beyond “college-mode”. He has told me in the past that he admires Professor Lupin’s style (that is, the character from Harry Potter, of course), and I thought this vest would be just about perfect. It’s casual, but still a bit more dressed up than just a tee-shirt and jeans. The price was amazing and I found it on Etsy from this user. Etsy, of course, is one thing I just can’t live without during a handmade/vintage holiday season.

The neutral coloring will make it perfect wear for any button up long sleeve, and it looks great layered under cardigans as well. I’ll try to remember to post a photo of him wearing it then next time he does. When he unwrapped this vest on Christmas morning his comment was “Aw, if only I had a pocket watch to go with it!” I smiled and told him to work on his stocking next.

- A pocket watch - He excitedly went to his stocking since it was what I had suggested, and found his favourite gift of the season. Ryan is a classic man. He prides himself in doing things the old fashioned way, and hates to fall back on technology for something so simple as the time. When the power goes out, or the battery dies (a problem that he in particular struggles with — he can never seem to remember to charge his phone), where are we then? A pocket watch seems the best solution to a problem such as this one, so the choice was simple. It also helped that he had been hinting around about wanting a pocket watch for quite some time now…

And later I found this out about the pocket watch…

- A vintage skeleton key – The skeleton key was the perfect little nick-knack to keep the pocket watch company in Ryan’s stocking this year. And now it adorns our bathroom shelf along with an antique cigar box that I inherited from my Grandparents’ house via my Mom. I love the little vista that we’ve created here with my hair bows, bobby pins and the seashells that keep the little guys together in one place. The key is from this Etsy shop, and the seller was quite nice. At the last minute there was a complication with my sale and they kindly contacted me to keep me in the loop then offered me a different item (I think the one I purchased online had been sold in person just that same day or something to that effect). Dealing with this user, either way, was a delight, and I am very happy with the product.

- Two gnome ornaments for our tree - This will be our third Christmas living together, so we still have a limited amount of ornaments on our tree that are actually ours. When we moved into our first apartment together, his family gave us a whole bag of hand-me-down ornaments which are absolutely hysterical (they were originally factory rejects with very colorful suggestions). We love these little gems because of the history that they have in his family, and because some of them are unintentionally explicit, but it’s very nice to be able to look at a tree and recall all of the personal memories behind each ornament, so each Christmas I make sure to give Ryan at least one new one so we can remember that particular year. These were handmade on Etsy by this user and just captured my heart!

- Yarn Kirby ornament – I made this one because I have a tradition of giving him Nintendo themed ornaments and Kirby’s Epic Yarn is a game that we bought earlier this year and enjoyed quite a bit together. It’s so much fun, and pretty easy for a beginner like me. It’s a bit hard to see the colours in this photo (the pretty tree lights are giving it their own colouring), but it’s pretty accurate except that I used red yarn for the feet. I didn’t want to go out and buy a skein of magenta yarn that I knew I’d probably never use just for two inches of it for this project. The green cloth around it has been sliced at the edges to emulate a wreath so Kirby can be Christmas-y. As we go through the years I’ll continue to make a different Nintendo character for as long as I can before running out! I’ve still got awhile :)

- Garlic sketch - If I had to guess, I’d say the kitchen is most likely the hardest room to decorate. What does one put in a kitchen for decorations? Of course, you can paint the wall some crazy colour, because you’re only in there when you’re cooking, and you could do your best to match your kitchenware to the rest of the kitchen, but what’s the point of buying everything new for that reason? And as for art, what kind would you hang on the wall? I have considered this question before, but since we’ve never actually had a real kitchen (in our studio apartment there was a living space with kitchen and living room together and in this apartment it’s a narrow galley-style kitchen), we’ve never really had to solve the problem. Then I ran across these prints of veggies on text and thought they were just darling. I reproduced the effect quite easily thanks to Ryan’s cut-out book box that he made for Uncle Bob and the stack of pages that were his by-product, and framed the results in our kitchen this year as a Christmas gift for him! In the future (when we have a real kitchen to hang them in) I plan on sketching a few more veggies to complete the series.

- Embroidered Woodgrain Handkerchief - I purchased the fabric on Etsy for this project then hemmed and embroidered the hanky myself with two “R”s in opposite corners. The pattern on the fabric matches the woodgrain that is found on the front of Ryan’s new pocket watch, as well, so the two were natural partners for Christmas gifts. On Christmas day and his birthday (two days later) he wore the entire ensemble that I had picked out for him; vest, pocket watch, and hanky. I think I did pretty well this year!

 

Me – I am fortunate enough to be surrounded by really great people who went out of their ways this Christmas to find gifts that would really make it into my heart. I was blown away by some of the truly thoughtful gifts that people sent my way, so I’ll just highlight a couple of my favourites:

- Hand-knit dishcloths - My Mom drew my name for my family’s Secret Santa game and she packed me a nice little tin full of stocking stuffers. My favourite thing in there (besides the Smart Wool socks — good one, Mom!) was a handmade set of dishcloths. These are endlessly useful in our kitchen and I was so happy to give them a home.

- Wooden hangers - You may have seen photos already of the display on our bedroom door of a tree branch, a simple wooden hanger, and a brown paper heart? That particular hanger is a love of mine and one day I dream of having a closet full of wooden hangers that all match and look lovely. I hate the sight of plastic (it’s just so dorm-y) and really want to get away from it, but we never have the money to invest in enough wooden hangers to hang my excessive amount of clothes. I’m happy to say, though, that this year I am just a little bit closer to that goal thanks to Ryan and his giving me several more handmade wooden hangers, each just slightly different than the others, to add to our closet. Perfect, Ry!

- Nostalgic whimsy birdcage – Ryan’s parents hit the nail right on the head this year by gifting me something that I’ve really been wanting lately. This birdcage is currently the center piece on our table, and I have hung all of my necklaces from the flourishes on the top so they dangle inside where the bird should be. It makes an excellent jewelry holder as well as a gorgeous winter-y focus for the table in the center of our living room. I’m just in love. Piece by piece we put our little nest together.

- Shabby chic antique dress form – And my favourite gift of the year; this gorgeous dress form. No longer will I have to peel clothing items on and off of myself during their creation while I cringe at the thought of being pinned. No longer will I have to adjust the size of the item I’m sewing in my head for the appropriate person — now I can adjust the size of this dress form and drape appropriately knowing full well that what I’m making will fit. And, if you’re going to get a dress form, why the heck wouldn’t you go for this gorgeous floral one? It fits right into my favourite decorating scheme.

- New York Skyline Over Central Park Watercolor - My friend Ben did this one himself and sent it to me. It’s been on my favourites list on Etsy for over a year and every holiday I secretly wish someone will buy it for me. Finally, it now adorns my local artist wall (even though he’s not local to Maine, I think it counts that I know him…). You can visit his clothing shop here or his art shop here. There’s nothing in the art shop at the moment, but I bet he’d take some requests if you sent him a message.

- Two Kitty Cat Tower - THIS gift didn’t make the list originally just because it is so amazing that I completely forgot it was handmade! Only now (after the post has been up for probably twelve hours, and in the works for several weeks) did I remember that an individual entrepreneur made it! I don’t recall the name of the person, I’m sorry, but I know that Ryan’s parents got it from the pet supply store that one of their friends owns so the connection is there. The cats are so enamored by this climber. They spend all sorts of time lounging, scratching, and climbing, and I’m working to compile a video of them enjoying their amazing gift so I can send it along to Lei and Renee as a big thank you for such a wonderful gift.

Those are the lovely items that comprised our handmade/vintage Christmas this year. Sorry the post took a little while to compile…I had actually forgotten to photograph a lot of these things until after Christmas when I started to work on the post, so I had to wait for them all to come home (the watch, for example, was always with Ryan and it seemed like every time I was working on this post he wasn’t at home). But here it is, finally. I hope all of your Christmases were just as lovely as mine was. :)

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Past Lives

Awhile back, Miss Moss posted some Flickr photos from a user named Lynne’s Lens (the entry can be viewed here). Each photo is a vintage image from some lives long ago. I felt super inspired by each distinct memory, knowing that at one point the person captured in each felt the comfort of the present. Now, though, I’m sure they’d hardly be able to recall the day or occasion that gave the photo importance at the time.

With those strangers in mind, I thought of my family and what memories they had left. There’s a photo that I claimed from my Grandmother’s house when we were cleaning it out to sell it. It’s been on display in my home ever since, and I occasionally glance at it or think about the two women depicted (my Grandmother and her sister) and how they were as I knew them best. The Nows-and-Thens seem so wildly different, but it’s charming to see them as young women when I only knew them after they’d carved out little niches for themselves.

And as I removed the photo from its frame to photograph it for you, I found a little clip of paper tucked in behind the print that said in my Grandmother’s script: WAR’s over! 1945 Anita + friends

"WAR's over! 1945 Anita + friends

Soldiers with Anita Bennett (Petrie) and Shirley Bennett (Smith)

 

What vintage images inspire you?

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DIY Non-Toxic Playdough

Homemade Play Dough

2 Cups Flour

1 Cup Salt

2 Tablespoons Vegetable Oil

2 Cups Water

4 Teaspoons Cream of Tartar

- Mix ingredients together in a saucepan over medium heat.

- Stir constantly until the mixture thickens.

- Turn off the heat and carefully take out one smallish chunk of dough (however much you want to make of your first colour). Cover the top to keep the rest warm while you work with one colour.

- Add drops of food colouring as desired and kneed dough until the colour is fully mixed. Store this hunk in a container or plastic bag.

- Repeat with different colours until all of the dough is gone.

I made this play dough as a gift for my niece, but quickly realized that it would be even better if I had made it with my niece. This recipe is very child friendly, very quick, and very simple. Give it a go!

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Hi, pals!

I’ve had this How-To hangin’ around for quite some time now. I originally found the post around the holidays + neglected to pass it along until now. Sorry for that!

It’s an instructional from Curbly.com on how to make a soda can into a bookmark! This is a simple project that would make a nice quick gift to pass along to reader friends.

Since I bet you could make several at a time once you get into it, this might also do well as a handmade party favor if you’re a frequent host!

Get crafty!

xx. Julia

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Photo and product by ChristyStudio on Etsy

6| A new tote bag – When I was teaching, my life revolved around my tote bag. I was constantly needing one binder or another, a certain book, or that folder of corrected papers that were ready to be passed back. Essentially, a tote bag is a teacher’s life line. We put everything in there and we need to be able to snatch it up quickly when the bell rings so we can prep ourselves for the next lesson. An adorable tote like this one would really have made me feel not only prepared, but also pretty stylish while I strutted my stuff down those runways…er, hallways… Anyway, Ryan bought me this handbag from the same seller last Christmas and I am still to this day using it as my primary carry-along! It is holding up very well. The bag is super well-made, durable, and everything else that I’d hoped it would be! I sincerely recommend it :)

Photo and product from BurtsBees.com

5| Burt’s Bees – This was another life line of mine when I was teaching. I did a lot of talking, a lot of grading (thus, a lot of anxious lip-biting), and, of course, a lot of standing in front of large groups of high schoolers who were forced to stare at my face for an entire 45 minute period every single day. Burt’s Bees was a simple pleasure that I gratefully indulged in. Plus, when I was talking one on one with students the delightfully minty scent helped cover up that garlic I had for lunch…which leads me to number 4!

 

 

 

 

Photo and product by LeBellaCaramella on Etsy

4| Candies – As I just mentioned, I often found myself consulting a student or working closely with another teacher, and wondering if they could smell whatever pungent delicacy I had devoured for lunch. Rather than stressing endlessly over my breath, or — even worse — not eating the delicious food to begin with, I kept a stash of mints close at hand (in my tote bag, of course). Seeing as giving a teacher a pack of mints for Christmas might seem a tad insenstive, I’d go with candies. You don’t want to offend. Candies will cover the bad breath well enough to offer Teach a bit of relief while you don’t unwittingly put yourself or your child on her (or his!) bad side.

Photo and product by ChocolateAndRibbons on Etsy

3| Water bottle - Yet another essential for any teacher. We’re talking all day long and heaven forbid we get hoarse! Keep us hydrated with fresh fountain water (ha). Going reusable will really help him or her cut down on plastic consumption and general pollution, and it gives you a really great idea for a gift! Get it personalized if you can think of the right thing to say, otherwise stick to a basic graphic and cross your fingers while you hope for the best!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Photo and product by PaperLink on Etsy

2| Paper journal - While it would be ideal for schools to always provide the materials a teacher needs to be successful, unfortunately that convenience is just a dream for most teachers. At least by providing this gift-worthy teacher a blank pad of paper you’ll be encouraging him or her to pen some new and fabulous lessons free of charge!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Photo and product by ADahlberg on Etsy

1| A lovely potted plant - This will spice up her boring desk and give her something to look forward to every day. Nourishing another living thing will give her relief from the paper pushing, disciplining, brain numbing normalcy of being a teacher (you can clearly tell I have a high opinion of the profession ;) ) Plus, it’ll make her look just a little less intimidating behind that big heavy desk.

 

 

 

 

LAST MINUTE EMERGENCY GIFT:

Photo and product by GallardoWorks on Etsy

A desk calendar - An ever present desk calendar could be just the thing he or she needs. I’m sure she has a weekly planner somewhere in that bag, but if she had a little calendar that she could prop up on her desk, that would make assigning due dates all the easier! Then again, maybe you don’t want to give her a desk calendar…

 

(Click any of the photos for a direct link to the Etsy shop where it is sold. And make sure to check out my other 2010 Holiday Gift Guides!)

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This is what Ryan and I do for holiday fun…we go down to our friends’ house, drink egg nog, sing Christmas songs, eat cheese, and be jolly. If you like the music or the video please go over to The Rugg Brothers’ youtube channel and subscribe. There will be plenty more where this came from in the future and if you’ve been paying attention to my past blog posts you’ll already know several of their other holiday hits.

 

And, if you’d like a copy of the mp3 for this song we’re offering it for free! Just leave a comment and I’ll send it your way!

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Photo and product by TheIDConnection on Etsy

7| Bookends – It may seem like a little bit of a cop out to some of you, but I personally know how much I would appreciate these little treasures. The one bookcase that reigns over our apartment has been filled to the brim for years, so in our house we’ve started to collect books not only on the mantel to the fireplace, but in the fireplace as well (don’t worry, it’s out of commission). Book ends come in very handy when you have to get crafty while storing your stuff. Before we moved to this apartment we used our window sills, and who knows what we’ll come up with next. Maybe someday in our future we’ll be rich enough to have a library in our home, but until then we just continue to stick our books on any flat surface and arm the ends well with book ends like these.

6| Salon gift certificate - Although gift certificates get a terribly bad wrap for being a very impersonal present, there is a time and a place for these little gems. A haircut, for example, cannot be purchased for someone and packaged to set under the tree. But, every girl secretly loves to be pampered and an occasional salon cut will do just the trick when you’re hoping to make her feel special. Try to pick a place that is going to jive well with her personality and style. I love going to HeadGames here in Portland because the establishment strives to be as green as they can and they offer every client a drink as soon as they come in…they even serve wine.

Photo and product by VerdiGrisVintage on Etsy

5| Vintage suitcase – Now that she has carved her own little niche in the world, she’s likely to be making lots of weekend trips back home to see Mom and Dad, to visit high school friends, and even college friends in different places. You know she’d love to haul her stuff around with a fab vintage suitcase like this 1960s find. And when she’s not using it to tote, she can stand it nicely in her room as a classy little storage box!

Photo and product from Miss Selfridge

4| A chunky knit sweater - Every girl’s best friend in the winter months is a chunky knit sweater. In past years, we may have run through the front door as soon as we got home, peeled our “cute” layers off and added a frumpy, grandma-type knit piece immediately to get warm, (lucky for us) frumpy is in this year and there’s no need to hide it! So pile on those gigantic, droopy layers, gals, and keep yourself warm while feeling confident about your look! Don’t be afraid to stick a scarf or blazer over it either. The more layers the better!

Photo and product by celentanowoodworks on Etsy

3| A cakulele - A lot of ladies have been getting into ukes as of late, and this little charmer just stole my heart. I’ve been into this maker for awhile, admiring his handy work when it comes to stringed instruments. Even if you’re not interested in buying one right now (or even at any point), these pieces individually are works of art and they definitely deserve your views if you have the time to head over. It’s just amazing what detailing and personality can be added to an instrument if it is done by the right person.

Photo and product by Toms

2| Toms - Get her some Toms if she likes to be comfy! I was so excited about this brand when I first heard about them because for every pair of shoes that they sell, they donate one to a shoeless child. Before we left for London I absolutely had to get a pair so my feet wouldn’t hurt while I walked all around the city. I have not been let down! I’ve owned them now for several months and they are holding up incredibly well, plus, they’re easy to match with nearly every outfit! A simple must-have!

Photo and product by CarrotCake on Etsy

1| A Fancypack® - I bought my Fancypack® from its creator, Carrotcake, a year and a half ago and I have never been able to come to terms with its handiness. Every time I don this amazing creation I am once again overcome with excitement about its unique convenience. This is the perfect accessory for day trips, dressy occasions, or any day that you don’t feel like lugging around your entire bag, but need space to keep your stuff! Essentially, a Fancypack® is an adjustable belt with a great big bow on the front, and inside the bow are six pockets — two of which have velcro enclosures! I can fit my phone, camera, keys, several cards and some cash in mine without anyone else being able to tell! P.s. She takes custom requests! Just convo her!

(Click any of the photos for a direct link to the Etsy shop where it is sold. And make sure to check out my other 2010 Holiday Gift Guides!)

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Photo and product by FreckleWonder on Etsy

8| Vintage rags – Guys hate shopping for their clothes. A recent shopping trip with Ryan really highlighted this fact for me. We have really tried to make it easy…in fact, his tastes are pretty simple as it is, so I never expected to feel so frustrated when shopping with him. He prefers plain white tee-shirts and Levis jeans on a regular day and he likes to dress up nicely with cardigans, slacks, and dress shoes when we are doing something fun together. Can this really be that hard? I wondered. Well, the answer is: Yes. Yes, it can. We left several shops on this most recent trip bagless and smileless, and on the way out of the last store I said to him, “Maybe from now on I should just do your shopping for you…” A big sigh of relief was proof to me that he was very excited to hear me make that offer. Gifting your guy some great vintage finds will help you save money while offering him some happiness and a cool new (to him) look.

Photo and product by AikosLove on Etsy

7| Nintend-art - If your 20-something male is anything like my 20-something male, then he’ll definitely appreciate some Nintend-art. Think about it…he’s out on his own now, decorating his own place, but he’s not going to want the curtains and duvet covers that you might be attracted to. Instead, he’ll probably just not decorate, but look around his flat occasionally and ask himself what he could do to fix it up. Then, when he realizes that he doesn’t like curtains and duvet covers, he’ll give up. I had the unique opportunity last night to observe three 20-something males from pretty different backgrounds all in one room, and the thing they had in common? Nintendo. Give him a familiar face like these two to adorn his new “grown up” walls and he’ll be eternally reminded that you really know what he is all about.

6| Concert tickets - Surprise him with concert tickets if you are sure you know his favourite band. Now’s the time to be getting all of that pesky youth out of his system before he hits his 30s, so encourage him to get out there and do stuff before he’s got other stuff tying him down. Make sure, though, that the band you think is his favourite really actually is. Tastes can change pretty quickly these days, and you don’t want him to feel like he has to go see that band he liked in high school but now thinks is pretty lame just because you were kind enough to track down the tickets. Also, try to consider his schedule as well. He’s an adult now so he may have to be up early the next morning to go to work. If travel is involved this will be less than ideal.

Photo and product by EgoorEngland on Etsy

5| Technology accessories – So maybe he doesn’t have an iPhone, but he surely must have an iPod, no? Either way, they both look sleek and feel great in the palm of your hand, but they don’t really do so well in pockets or backpacks without a little protection. Since we’ve already established that he hates shopping around, we can pretty safely say that he’s not going to take his time looking for the perfect slip cover — enter the gift giver. This is your chance. You can track down the coolest darn case that graces any store shelf or computer screen with the ease of a patient shopper (yeah, right.) and he will be all the more grateful to you on Christmas morning when he sees that you have found something he will actually use. Oh, and don’t worry about that strange little symbol. He’ll know what it means…

Photo and product by CarryTheWord on Etsy

4| Back pack or messenger bag - Maybe it’s because I’m a girl, but I just don’t understand how guys get along in life without carrying a purse! I mean, they’ve got stuff to carry, too, right? Keys, wallet, phone, iPod, a book, sometimes laptops… ah, never mind. I’ve figured it out. They make their girlfriends carry their stuff.

Ladies, if you’re sick of your boyfriend sticking stuff in your bag then the answer is simple; get him his own. Now here’s the tricky part…which bag? There are tons out there, and sometimes even if it is marketed as a “European shoulder bag” for men, it just looks better on women. So, stick to the basics. Backpacks and messenger bags are reliable and neutral. Go for a plain color like a black or blue because he’ll want to be able to take it to work, and, well, he’s not in college anymore! He can always add his own flair later on if he wants to, but chances are he’ll keep it just as it is.

Photo and product by BeerRing on Etsy

3| Bottle opener ring - We have a friend who prides himself on being able to open his beer bottles on anything and everything. Last night he borrowed a can of cat food from Atlas and Hugo to get the job done. We even know another guy who uses his teeth (“That’s right, Mr. Dentist, Sir, I have no idea how my tooth got cracked”)! Not all people are like this, though. Some people even opt to carry around a bottle opener as a more realistic solution to the same situation. However, if the person unwrapping your gifts this year has a bit of a fashion flair, you might consider giving him this ring. Not only is it man-chic, but it’s also incredibly useful. Perhaps he’s not brave enough to wear jewelry?  Try a belt!

Photo and product by ParadiseBodyShop on Etsy

2| Man soap – Let’s see. If he doesn’t even want to figure out how the heck to buy clothes, do you really think he’s going to spend time and money on soap? Let’s not ask that question. I may be sounding a bit harsh here, but really, there are plenty of guys that I have met in the past who just couldn’t be bothered to buy themselves soap (luckily, I snagged myself a real clean kinda guy who actually has taught me a thing or two about keeping a clean home). Even at that, when those other guys did buy soap it would be a quick in and out at a pharmacy or grocery store and they might whine and complain about spending the money on that “stupid crap”. So, stuff his stocking this year with some MAN SOAP. If nothing else, he’ll get a real kick out of it.

1| Mugs – Now here’s the right person to give a mug! Remember the other day when I mentioned that Moms love mugs, but usually have too many to count, thus, you should steer clear of Mom mug giving? This guy, your 20-something male, will not have a mug in his entire apartment. He’s out on his own now, and is probably either too broke to buy mugs, or just doesn’t think about getting any and does just fine without them. However, if you’re a Mom looking to reduce her collection, you might consider going through yours to pick out a couple that he might have fond memories of, and sending them his way. And, this is another opportunity to toss the Nintendo thing in there. When Ryan and I went to Nintendo World in NYC, he was so excited not only to buy a Mario mug for himself, but also a Luigi mug for me, and a Link mug for his best friend. See what I mean? It makes sense, though, doesn’t it? He stays up late playing video games and needs coffee to wake him up in the morning for work!

(Click any of the photos for a direct link to the Etsy shop where it is sold. And make sure to check out my other 2010 Holiday Gift Guides!)

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9| Shaving kit - For a Dad who appreciates a good shave, an electric razor won’t always do the trick. Sure, it’s good for weekday mornings before he rushes off to work, (I won’t pretend it’s not incredibly convenient) however, what about those lazy Sunday mornings when he’s passing time before the paper arrives and breakfast is ready (1950s anyone)? Okay, maybe I’m being a little hokey here, but I really think a nice quality shaving kit might just do the trick! It’s also a nice display item for people who are looking to spice up their bathroom shelves.

Photo and product from TheHairOfTheDog on Etsy

8| Flask - It’s a classic man gift, and it really does come in handy sometimes, I’m sure. Weddings? Christmas plays? Shopping trips with Mom and daughters? There must be an occasion where Dad wishes he could just have a bit of relief from the reality of whatever situation he currently finds himself in. And, if nothing else, it will definitely help your Dad feel awesome.

Photo and product from BittersweetDesign on Etsy

7| Pipe - For a Dad who likes a good smoke, a classic tobacco pipe will be just the thing. Now, I don’t really know very much about smoking accessories, but when I think of a traditional Dad I see him sitting in a cozy chair in front of a warm fireplace enjoying his pipe after a long day. I mean, if Charles Ingalls likes it then who the heck wouldn’t?

Photo and product by OldJunkyardBoutique on Etsy

Photo and product by OldJunkyardBoutique on Etsy

6| Pocket watch - If your Dad is anything like mine, he gets along with technology, but isn’t really as into it as a lot of people are. Thus, as is the case with a lot of people who didn’t grow up in the digital age, when they are looking for the time, they don’t always go immediately to their cellphones. And, even if they do think of these carry-along handy-things, they may not actually have their cellphones on them at the time they need to know the time. Thus, a watch is most likely a good gift for a Dad in need, but what’s even more stylish than a wrist watch? A pocket watch, clearly!

Photo and product by TasticLife on Etsy

5| Antlers - Well, I may find decorating with dead animals a little bit disgusting, but it seems like a lot of Dads don’t. And, if your Dad doesn’t have the time, patience, or heart to hunt and kill an animal, you could always buy him a vintage piece that has already been finished into a wall hanging. One of my favourite things about the new wave of home decor is that people are getting really creative with their media. On Etsy, one can find animal heads ready for mounting that are recreated in cardboard or wood instead of actually being taxidermy. Give Dad a real statement piece this year with one of these!

Photo and product by PurposeDesign on Etsy

4| Gourmet grill spices - So maybe your Dad isn’t an antique appreciator and you’re looking for something he’ll get to appreciate a little bit more. During the Summer season, guys the world over take to the back porch to perfect their grilled favourites. All of them are sure to appreciate gourmet grilling spices to add a bit of a twist to the usual Summer dinner suspects. And, if you get your Dad this there’s a chance that you, too, will be able to benefit from it with a tasty spread of all things barbequed.

Photo and product by BreadAndBadger on Etsy

3| Mustache paraphernalia - Yes, mustaches have come back in style. Perhaps it was somewhat ironic at first, but at this point I think most people are actually serious about these facial accessories. However, a lot of Dads still can’t grow out their upper lip because their wives won’t let them. If you and your Dad have tried to convince Mom many a time that they are in fact okay to don again, but she just isn’t quite so into it, then maybe a mustache gift is the perfect thing for him this holiday season.

Photo and product by DippyLuLu on Etsy

2| Fart matches - Here’s a funny little gift that could make the most out of a stinky situation. Apparently, the scent of these freshly lit matches will neutralize the gassy smell that somehow managed to escape from your father no matter how hard your mother wants him to hold them in. You can’t blame the guy, though, they’re better out than in, right? This little match box is sure to fit quite well into Dad’s stocking this Christmas, and it will definitely amount to many laughs from everyone who has gathered together around the tree. Speaking of the tree…make sure he’s careful not to use these matches too closely to those decorated boughs.

Photo and product from PillowsToDyeFor on Etsy

1| Handkerchiefs - Now, some Dads may have switched over to tissues at this point, but my Dad hasn’t, and I know a lot of other people who have said the same to me about their fathers. So, what could be more useful for a hanky lovin’ Dad than a brand new set of handmade handkerchiefs? This, too, could be easily stuffed down into his fireside sock, or you could wrap them up all nicely if you so chose! Either way, you can’t really go wrong with these guys!

(Click on any of the photos for a direct link to the Etsy shop where it is sold. Also, don’t forget to check out my other 2010 Holiday Gift Guides!)

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