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No. 6!

Posted in Lists, The Holidays, tagged , , , , , , , on February 11, 2012 | Leave a Comment »

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Look up new movies for the year!

Mark on your calendar the opening dates of any that you know you’ll want to see together. We can’t wait for Moonrise Kingdom. First, it’s set in New England, our home sweet home. Next, it’s 1965 — same year as my novel { this year is also a current love of mine – what I wouldn’t give for a time machine! }. Then, the overall theme of the movie seems to be camp-y. So perfect for me! It was only a matter of time before Wes Anderson got it exactly right! He’s been hovering around my tastes for quite some time now.

I’m also very excited about Big Miracle, but I have a feeling Ryan could take that or leave it. Still, he’s a sweet guy and I’m sure that he’ll accompany me to see this. I’ll make sure to include plenty of movies that he’s interested in this year, too. This weekend I hope we’ll have a chance to look up release dates that will be coming out in 2012 and add some more to our calendar. Going to see a picture together is such a classic date idea, and it charms me to no end! It also doesn’t hurt that our local theatre still has that old time hollywood feel { the employees wear vests + bow ties }.

Only one more Valentine suggestion left!

xx.

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No. 5!

Posted in Lists, Music, The Holidays, tagged , , , , , , on February 9, 2012 | Leave a Comment »

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Make more mixtapes { yes, still! }

Sure, mixtapes may have been a huge hit amongst teens in the ’80s, but the mix — not necessarily in tape form — is an excellent way to show someone how you feel about them. These days a CD or a playlist is probably more relevant. Either way, it’s the thought that counts! To some this may seem cliche, but you don’t have to make a big deal about it. I make mixes all the time for us to listen to in the car or while we’re bumming around the house. Making an effort to scout out potential new favourite songs for the one you love is a sweet and thoughtful way to show them 1. that you know them + pay attention to their tastes, and 2. that you care.

I made a Valentine’s Day playlist packed with sweet + romantic songs. I can’t wait to listen to it with my Mr. on Tuesday! The best part about having a distinct song or playlist that you hear often during a certain period of time is that you start to associate the two. Wouldn’t it be lovely if your honey popped in the mix you made them later on in the year and happily reflected upon the time you’d spent together this February? Choose songs that remind you of them and plenty of new gems you know they’ll like! Happy mix making!

Check back for two more ways!

xx.

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No. 4 Way To Make Valentine’s Day Last All Year

Posted in Lists, The Holidays, tagged , , , , , , , on February 7, 2012 | 5 Comments »

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Plan dates ahead of time – way ahead of time!

Sit down with your honey when you have a little time. Pick one date each for every month remaining in the year, but don’t tell the other person what you’ve chosen! Write it down on a piece of paper and seal it in an envelope marked for that month. When you’re all done, you’ll have two dates per month for the rest of the year, and half of them will be a surprise for each of you! Don’t be afraid to add gift certificates, treasure maps, or scavenger hunt lists to the envelopes, too. Make it interesting and cater it to you + your mr. or ms.!

We started with March since we’re already half way through February. During March, when we have a day off together and nothing to do, we’ll pick one of the envelopes for the month, open it, and do whatever it tells us! It could be anything from a quick little coffee date, to a picnic, or an entire day filled with adventure — you two decide! This is an excellent way to make Valentine’s Day last all year since you’re spending time together now { while planning the dates } and you’re setting yourself up for some quality time in the months to come! Who knows? By the time these dates roll around you may have even forgotten what you’ve written on your own date cards!

See you again soon for three more ways!

xx.

P.s. Check out No. 1, No. 2, + No. 3!

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No. 3 Way To Make Valentine’s Day Last All Year

Posted in Lists, The Holidays, tagged , , , , , , , on February 5, 2012 | 3 Comments »

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Surprise your love by doing his/her chore!

If there are certain things that your partner always tends to do { for example: Ryan always does the laundry, but I always do the vacuuming/cleaning } surprise them by doing this chore instead! There’s nothing more romantic than having an unintended night off because your partner was kind enough to do it as a surprise. Do this every so often when your honey deserves a night off, or when you’re particularly happy to have them around, and then you’ll be sure to make Valentine’s Day last.

The element of surprise is key here, though. If you come to expect that the other person is going to take care of things, then it won’t seem as special. When I decide to do this, I like to do Ryan’s chore before he comes home from work, when he’s in the shower, or if he steps out of the house for something. That way when he goes to do the dishes or what-have-you, he’ll find them already done and be completely blown away!

Check back soon for four more ways to make it last!

xx.

P.s. Here are No. 1 + No. 2!

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No. 2 Way To Make Valentine’s Day Last All Year

Posted in Lists, The Holidays, tagged , , , , , , , on February 2, 2012 | 2 Comments »

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Learn how to dance together!

Not only will scheduled dance classes give you something to look forward to as a couple, but once you get the steps down you’ll love the thrill of dancing together. I can’t think of a better way to enjoy each others’ company than by dancing a slow waltz. And because it’ll come in handy at formal affairs in the future, and practicing together at home will help you enjoy your time together, this will be an excellent way to make Valentine’s Day last.

If you don’t have enough money, or aren’t sure where to take dance classes, there are tutorials a-plenty here on the internet. Here’s a Youtube instructional to get you started, then once you’ve got the steps down shut off that computer, put on a record, and practice the night away! Once you master the waltz, move on to other dances!

Stay tuned for five more ways!

xx.

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No. 1 Way To Make Valentine’s Day Last

Posted in Lists, The Holidays, Writing, tagged , , , , , , on January 29, 2012 | 4 Comments »

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Get in the habit of writing love letters.

This is something that Ryan is really good at. He often leaves me little notes to welcome me home from work or to tell me that he’s thinking of me while he’s away. I think about him often, too, but for some reason it never occurs to me to write it down! That’s why one of the things I want to work on to make Valentine’s Day last all year is this:

I started by penning this message the other day. From here on out, every time I have a little thought about our future, or a sweet memory from our past, I’m going to try to jot it down and leave it somewhere for him to find { think lunchbox, pillow top, pockets }. It’s so nice to know that you’re being thought of, thus, this doesn’t have to only be for a partner. Try this for a family member that you love, or a co-worker that deserves a “thank you”!

One of the best things about Valentine’s Day is that it encourages us to be deliberate in our expression. When life gets in the way, it’s easy to forget to tell your partner that you really love them { and why }, even if you think it and feel it often. But, everyone needs to hear these things sometimes. And when it’s written down you have a great chance to really consider what makes your partner and your relationship so special and choose your words accordingly. Your notes, though, don’t always have to be formal! Even just scribbling something on the back of a receipt, on a chalkboard, or a calendar will get the sentiment across.

Stay tuned for six more ways!

xx.

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